Advocacy – Life As I Know It

Metastatic Breast Cancer Awareness Day

October 13, 2025

Today is Metastatic Breast Cancer Awareness Day. We get this one day in breast cancer awareness month to shine a light on MBC.

1 in 3 of women cured of breast cancer
will be diagnosed as stage IV (MBC), which is terminal.

If we cure Stage IV, we cure all breast cancer.

In support of raising awareness for MBC, I went to Washington D.C. last week and participated in the METAvivor Stage IV Stampede and Summit.

The Summit included a day of education about MBC as well as how to advocate for various bills and funding.

Tuesday we marched (with police escort) from our hotel to the Capitol. We had a remembrance on the grass. I am holding the sign on the end, near the last “R”. We spoke the names of those who have died from MBC (and I included my aunt Jeanne Moretti as well as several other friends who have passed).

Policy advocates preparing to visit with Congressional staffers.

We met with staffers of our elected representatives. Staffers were taking meetings even though the House was not in session and the federal government was/is closed.

There were four “asks” that we made. I had fantastic interactions and felt like I was heard. I’ll share here what those asks were – if you feel compelled to share with friends/family or to reach out to your own elected representatives that would mean a lot.

Did you know that if you have MBC and need to stop working there is 5-month waiting period for Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI) benefits to start? In addition, after that there is a 24-month waiting period before you are eligible for Medicare! I am one of the fortunate people who is living longer with my MBC diagnosis and can still work. Women with different subtypes have a prognosis of 2-3 years. During this time they can’t work and can’t get SSDI or Medicare. House bill 2048 “Metastatic Breast Cancer Access to Care Act” would eliminate the waiting period.
Did you know that where you live impacts how private insurance pays for MBC drugs? Private insurance treats medication received at a cancer center different from medication taken at home. Recall that I was on a pill (Ibrance) for the first 4 years. I live in a state where private insurance is required to pay for this (chemo) regardless of how it is given: intravenous or a pill. House bill 4101 (Cancer Drug Parity Act) would require private insurance to cover oral cancer drugs the same as IV drugs, regardless of what state you live in.
The U.S. is the largest funder in the world of cancer research. The administration’s budget zeroed out some breast cancer research programs and greatly reduced funding for the National Institutes of Health (NIH). Fortunately, Congress likes science – we asked them to provide the NIH with the same funding as last year and restore the breast cancer program in the Dept. of Defense.
Did you know there is a national database of incidence of cancer? It was created in the ‘70s during the Nixon administration. Unfortunately, it has not been updated since then. The Surveillance, Epidemiology and End Results (SEER) database provides information on cancer statistics which is used to inform where research dollars should go. It needs to be updated badly and I asked our reps to support funding for it. SEER help us understand where there is a high burden of cancer. It turns out that not every state is contributing to it. In addition, it does not include any recurrence of cancer. When I was first diagnosed, my information was put into SEER (LCIS and stage 0 DCIS breast cancer). However, there is no mechanism to update my information! According to SEER I was treated in 2009 and all is good with me. As you can see, the number of people with MBC or with any recurrent cancer are not counted which means we have no idea who is living with metastatic disease (unless you were diagnosed with MBC right away, which is only 6% of all MBC diagnoses).

That was a lot! If you are still reading, thank you. If you’d like more information about anything including language to send to your elected representatives, shoot me an email (charlevo@gmail.com).

I have one other cancer event this week and then I will take a break from cancer the rest of this month. I hope you are keeping balance in your life as well.

Onward!

1. Donate to research for MBC via METAvivor.

2. Find your Congressional representatives: House & Senate

Think Before You Pink – Support Research 🔬

October 1, 2025

When we moved to Colorado 16 years ago and I went to get my car license plates updated, I was asked if I wanted a “specialty plate”. There was one for breast cancer and I had been diagnosed only 6 months earlier.

“What does the extra $60 for the breast cancer specialty plate go toward?”

Clerk: “Um, I don’t know I think it’s just so you can raise awareness.”

“No thanks” – hard pass! They were collecting money that in no way went towards breast cancer at all.

Today is the start of Breast Cancer Awareness Month (BCAM) and you will see pink everywhere. I think it’s very important for people to be aware of cancer. However, at this point I’m pretty sure everyone in the U.S. is aware of breast cancer – how can you not be when you are confronted with pink at every turn!

Any business – or person – can “support” BCAM and do whatever they want with any money they might raise or collect.

Before you “round up” your groceries for BCAM or donate to a fundraiser, find out where that money is going.

If you are inclined to financially support BCAM, consider focusing on organizations that support scientific research of breast cancer. Scientific research is how we get treatments and how we understand how exactly breast cancer behaves. (Spoiler alert: we still don’t know how breast cancer behaves.)

Charity Navigator is a great resource to see how organizations use their funds (administrative costs vs. programming).

My favorite organizations focus on research mainly for stage 4 breast cancer (Metastatic Breast Cancer, MBC), they are listed below. Did you know?

Stage 4 (metastatic breast cancer MBC) is the ONLY breast cancer that kills.
30% of people “cured” from early stage breast cancer will eventually have a recurrence as Stage 4.
MBC is a terminal diagnosis.
If we cure stage 4, we cure everyone. Full stop.

If you’d at least share some of this information with one other person that would make me happy beyond belief.

We need more breast cancer research and especially stage 4. My life and the lives of my MBC friends depends on it.

METAvivor – donate on my page

Breast Cancer Research Foundation

Sikora Research Lab (donate or learn about a group I co-founded)

Lobular Breast Cancer Alliance

Summer, Scans & Science

June 4, 2025

Happy summer my friends. In Colorado we are starting off with a cool, wet one which is great for the a/c bill but less ideal for exploring outside.

Lot’s going on here including medically.

I had some work travel last month and towards the end I started not feeling well, including being light headed. I mentioned this to my oncology nurse 2 days ago during my treatment appointments and she scheduled a brain MRI and echocardiogram. Yes, light headedness triggers the immediate thought of brain metastasis.

Recall from my last post that we’ve found the MRI to be the best imaging for me. The brain MRI captures the head and top part of the spine (cervical). Mixed results: no brain metastasis 🙌 but it did pick up a new lesion on my C1 vertebrae 👎.

The nerves that come out of the C1 impact the sides of your face and head as shown in this nifty diagram (one of my fav diagrams BTW).

The most likely explanation for my light headedness is that the lesion (tumor) is pressing on the nerves. So, my oncologist has ordered another PET/CT to check again. It seems a little insane to keep getting imaging that doesn’t work so well – I guess he wants to confirm or look for other lesions.

My tumor markers did drop the end of last month which is in contradiction to the new tumor.

See how complicated and tricky cancer is?

For now, I’ll get the PET/CT and an echocardiogram and keep doing all the things (eating healthy, moving, relaxing) and we shall see where this takes me.

After my work trip I spent 2 days in Chicago at the American Society for Clinical Oncology (ASCO) where I learned about new treatment lines coming out and connecting with other patient advocates.

The cancer research going on now will result in the drugs being used in the coming years. This is why it is so important to preserve funding for the National Institutes of Health. The presidents budget slashes funding by almost 50%. That means many fewer clinical trials and many fewer drugs in 5 years. No one expects to get cancer. If you get cancer in 5 years you will be wishing the NIH had done more research to help you. Please call your elected federal reps and push for restoring funding to NIH.

On a lighter note – Maddy graduated from high school, Evelyn started a research internship at University Colorado Anschutz Medical Campus and we all head to Las Vegas at the end of the month to support Maddy in her last National Dance Competition.

Onward!

Amir humored me with a selfie in front of the MRI machine

Cancer Drugs 💊 and Research 🔬

April 19, 2025

Hello friends and family! A quick update on things cancer-related, as you can expect from this blog!

My hip is fantastic. No pain at all. I’m up to walking around 4 miles a day. I can manage about an hour at a time. So happy about that and grateful for the skill of my orthopedic oncologist Dr. Lerman.

This coming Monday morning I will have treatment #21 of Enhertu. Recall this is a drug called an Anti-body Drug Conjugate (ADC) and is given intravenously every three weeks. Overall this drug has been good to me. It brought me back from the brink of a run-away cancer train early last year. Recently it’s not clear it’s been working so well as I mentioned in this post. Recall also that this drug was approved for my type of breast cancer (Her2-low) only in August 2022 – a full 3 years after I was diagnosed with MBC. I’m hoping for more drug discovery and approval so I can live longer!

I’m grateful that my side effects continue to be minimal. I’m on a blood thinner because it caused a blood clot last fall. I take Olanzapine nightly to control nausea and vomiting. I’m also grateful for the researchers that looked into this particular use of Enhertu. So very grateful!

This brings me to my second update. The future of cancer research in the U.S. is at risk. I know this first hand as a researcher I work with is looking at a loss of funding from NIH for his basic lobular breast cancer research. He shared some of the graphics and information shown here.

This chart shows the trends of NIH grant funding from 2015-2025 (source). As you can see, the amount of funding being distributed is far below previous years. The spring months (Feb-May) is when most federal awards are made based on the budget cycle.

The outlook for the Congressionally Directed Medical Research Programs (CDMRP) show significant cuts to cancer research. The March 14 Continuing Resolution has their budget reduced by 57%. You can see from this chart where some of the cuts were.

You may say, well ok, but there are a lot of other sources of funding for cancer research. There are other countries who will continue research – we don’t need to worry. Not really. As you can see from this chart, the NIH is BY FAR the largest funder of cancer research IN.THE.WORLD! The budget of the NIH is significantly larger than the next largest funder.

Ok, you say – what about foundations? They also support research. Yes, they do. The amount that they spend is a fraction of what the U.S. Federal government spends. In addition, the dollar amounts from foundations tend to be small. The motivation of foundations is to provide seed money to develop a proof of concept. Once the researcher does this they have some preliminary data to seek out a federal research grant to do the main research. The foundations take on the risk that federal funding won’t.

Well, Donna, thanks for giving me such uplifting news. Now I feel sad. Well, I can help you feel better about all of this by – please – contacting your federal elected representatives and urge them to restore funding to the NIH. You can find their contact info here. If you scroll down past the photos you can see a script to follow when you call.

All this being said, I remain cautiously optimistic that Americans will band together and convince our reps to fund cancer research. You never know who will get cancer next and having new treatment options is critical.

Onward!

I encountered this lovely little duck swimming away in the creek on my walk in Lafayette.

Script for federal reps:

Hi, my name is [Name] and I’m a constituent from [Your city].

I’m calling to urge [Name of representative] to oppose the recent devastating cuts to NIH funding and staffing. These cuts are already disrupting crucial research to treat diseases such as cancer [you could also add Alzheimers, diabetes, other diseases that impact you]. Hurting the NIH hurts everyone.

Thank you for your time and consideration.

p.s. If you leave a voicemail be sure to leave your full street address to ensure your call is counted.

p.p.s. – If you are nervous about talking to a person, call in the evening and leave a voice mail. It still counts.

Please help end restrictions on National Institute of Health ❤️‍🩹

Hi everyone –

It’s been an interesting week, regardless of who you are and what you support. I’m writing because one of the Executive Orders this week puts a freeze on communications from many Federal agencies including Health and Human Services (HHS) and the National Institute of Health (NIH).

This is a serious situation as it is already putting cancer research at risk. I work closely with a breast cancer researcher at the University of Colorado (Dr. Matt Sikora) who conducts basic research through grants from NIH. Based on communications he received, it looks like his research lab may lose funding. This funding supports the basic cancer research that leads to new treatments. We all know how I feel about new treatments!

Well, that is a lot. What can I do as one individual?

I ask that you take 10-15 minutes to send an email to your elected members of Congress (you have 2 state Senators and 1 Representative). Believe it or not, staffers count the number of communications they get from constituents on a particular topic. While you might get a form letter response, don’t get discouraged. They will count your email! It will make a difference.

To help you, Dr. Sikora has drafted a sample email and provided links to find contact info for your elected reps as well as a link to where you can find the economic impact of cancer research in your state.

I’m happy to help anyone if you need it. Thanks for your consideration. Cancer has long been a non-partisan issue and should stay that way.

Onward!

Sample email text (you need to change things in bold)

Dear [congressperson]:

I am writing due to grave concerns with the freezing of communications at Federal agencies. Specifically, I am writing regarding HHS and the National Institutes of Health, including the indefinite suspension of council review meetings, review study sections, and travel. Suspension of these meetings and review sections jeopardizes biomedical research funding nationwide.

Currently, our state of Colorado receives nearly $600 million in funding for biomedical research from NIH, supporting over 7,000 highly skilled jobs and driving over $1.5 billion in economic activity. As a concerned constituent living in [Denver], and as a [patient living with cancer/research advocate/caregiver/etc], I urge you to make sure that money that has been allocated for NIH extramural funding, including all training and workforce development grants, remains committed. Loss of this funding would be disastrous for our local economy, and would drive major job loss including in highly trained university biomedical research personnel, including graduate students and postdoctoral trainees that make up the next generation of biomedical researchers.

NIH has always benefitted from robust bipartisan support, and I urge you to continue to commit Federal support to the NIH mission and extramural program, which ensures that our nation remains at the forefront of biomedical research innovations and advances in patient care.

Sincerely,

[name]

–Other state funding data can be found here: https://www.unitedformedicalresearch.org/nih-in-your-state

— Reps by address can be found here: https://www.congress.gov/members/find-your-member

BCAM and Lobular Conference

October 20, 2024

It’s been a busy couple of weeks. The main thing to share is that I feel great and have largely been able to do all the things I’d like to. My main medication (Enhertu) does cause significant nausea and vomiting (yes, that is the reality of MBC) but I have some medication that largely keeps it at bay.

My recovery from the hip replacement is going very well. All restrictions are lifted and I’m working with my PT to get more flexible as well as gain strength and endurance while walking.

October is Breast Cancer Action (Awareness) Month. This year hit differently for me and I can’t pinpoint it. It’s been hard. I did update the blog pages to include my favorite organizations for supporting breast cancer. You can see it here: Organizations to Support. If you are inclined to share some of your hard earned money to breast cancer research you are welcome to donate to my efforts to support METAvivor on this page.

Last month Maddy and I went to Belgium to attend the International Lobular Breast Cancer Symposium. In addition to enjoying the city of Leuven, I learned a lot about the state of research of lobular breast cancer. I have a short write up of what I learned at the end of this post.

Going back to the month of October and breast cancer – please “Think before you Pink” and know where your money is going. Awareness will not help those of us being treated for cancer. Ask questions, if they can’t tell you where the money is going it’s probably not a good investment.

I have treatment again this coming Wednesday. I’m usually at the cancer center for ~4 hours total including office visits, labs and treatment. I use the time to keep up with work but also read – or nap!

Take care of yourselves and your loved ones and enjoy fall.

Onward!

Here is the summary of my experience at the Symposium:

The ILC Symposium, held in Leuven Belgium, was attended by clinicians, researchers, and patient advocates. I attended the 3-day event as a patient advocate. There were just under 190 people in attendance. There are three main points I took away from the Symposium. Imaging for ILC is not very good and needs a lot of improvement. There are new opportunities for understanding an individual patient’s ILC/disease using circulating tumor cell technology. There are many people passionate about ILC and working to move the needle both in treatment and awareness. I found the opportunity to network with other patient advocates to be very good on Monday. We traveled to the university hospital and the time together on the bus allowed for very informal conversations. On the way back from the hospital we discussed what we saw and how the treatment there differs from the U.S. I found the lunch period another good time to network. It was rather difficult though for me personally to manage lunch because I have mobility issues and a cane and there were no tables to sit at. Because of this I ended up sitting elsewhere initially during lunch and then working to join conversations after.

I attended a breakout session devoted to “Imaging primary and metastatic ILC.” Breakout sessions ran concurrently and attendees could self-select which they wanted to join. There were approximately thirty attendees in this breakout session. The overall message was that imaging needs to be improved to be able to diagnose and monitor lobular breast cancer. It was interesting to hear from multiple people on the panel that there is also a shortage of radiologists, causing delays for patients. Patient concerns were shared with researchers and clinicians and among the top concerns were access to imaging, exposure to radiation, contrast exposure and difficulty with IV placement.

The second session I’ll summarize was focused on Tumor Microenvironment, specifically in Metastatic ILC. Here there was a presentation about circulating tumor cells (liquid biopsies) and how that may be a future way to monitor metastatic progression. There needs to be more research and clinical trials into liquid biopsies in various biofluids (beyond blood). This is an area that really needs more focus. Also discussed in this session was to promote research on misdiagnosis and delayed diagnosis in ILC as well as addressing patient-identified concerns through targeted research. I found those two discussions very interesting, and somewhat frustrating. It is clear we have a long way to go when it comes to diagnosing and treating metastatic ILC.

I’ve already had the opportunity to share what I’ve learned. I attended a metastatic breast cancer event the week after the Symposium and shared with other patient advocates what I learned. In addition, I’m the moderator for two facebook groups (one focused on lobular bc) and I shared some information already and will share more in the coming weeks. I also posted on social media during the Symposium, reaching several hundred followers. My hope is not only to educate but to prompt others to become ILC advocates in the future.

All Systems “Go”🚦

September 19, 2024

Hello friends and family! Welcome to fall (almost). The nights are getting cooler here and I’ve seen photos from others that the aspens are starting to change color in the mountains.

I write with good news. My PET scan of earlier this week shows that I’m stable. This is fantastic; it means that the cancer is not growing or spreading. The caveat is that lobular breast cancer sometimes doesn’t show up well on imaging. However, my blood tumor marker number dropped as well! The CA 27-29 gives an idea of how active the cancer is. A number of 38 or lower means the cancer is inactive. In mid-August it was 109. On September 11 it was 93! That was very welcome news!

The combination of the tumor marker dropping and my scan not showing progression means I can stay on the same treatment. I’m currently getting Enhertu every 3 weeks. I’ve got medications to deal with the side effects, overall I’m tolerating it very well.

I also spoke with my orthopedic surgeon this week. My recovery is going very well and he wished me a good time on my upcoming trip. He did mention several times how bad of shape my hip was in. I’m feeling grateful that I no longer have pain and hopefully I will be able to walk unaided soon. I still have some swelling and it’s hard getting used to walking since I’ve been using a cane for 2 years.

Tomorrow Maddy and I leave for Belgium. We are attending the International Lobular Breast Cancer Symposium! I received a travel grant from the Lobular Breast Cancer Association for which I am very grateful.

The symposium is 3 days long and the first day is focused on patient advocates. Maddy will come with me that day. The other 2 days are more research focused. We are excited to go and learn where research is headed for lobular breast cancer. My oncologist was not familiar with this conference and asked me to brief him on what I know. I’m more than happy to do that!

Not gonna lie – we are happy to go to Belgium as well. We should have one day where we can sight see. We will be in the city of Leuven which is east of Brussels. Watch for photos in the next blog post.

Life is good, right now for me life is great. I’m going to take it all in while also making sure I rest and don’t overdo it. Maddy may need to help me with that.

Onward!

My shiny new hip

September 7, 2024

I’m happy to share that my total hip replacement was a success! I had the surgery on Tuesday and was home Wednesday afternoon. My first home physical therapy session was Friday and he cleared me to walk the cul-de-sac. All the pre-habilitation has paid off!

Thank you to everyone who has sent well wishes and flowers and text messages. They are very much appreciated and each one brightens my day.

So, it turns out that my right leg was 1.5 centimeters shorter than my left leg. Over time, with the cancer eating away at my hip, the socket flattened out. The top of the femur also flattened out. It was months in the making so I didn’t necessarily notice the leg difference. It feels weird now to have both the same length – the right feels longer than the left.

He put a ceramic socket in and attached it to the cement/hardware that he put in a couple of years ago. My hip is not strong enough to have the socket attached to the hip bone, like in a normal hip replacement.

The top of the femoral head is metal (titanium I think). When he was putting it in my femur cracked (again, weak bones) and so he had to wrap some wire around it, kind of like a wine barrel. Overall he said the procedure was good and doesn’t expect any kind of complications with the healing.

Ann came out and was my caregiver for which I am extremely grateful. Maddy took the day from school to come to Denver and wait with Ann during the surgery.

The weather has been good and so I’m looking forward to walking outside. My PT comes again on Monday and I’ll be looking to walk longer. The cat is happy that I’m spending a lot of time in the recliner! On Monday I’ll get back to working, probably from my recliner!

I’ll have a check up in 2 or 3 weeks. I’m still planning to go to Belgium with Maddy for a breast cancer symposium later in September. The work must go on!

I also have a PET scan mid-September to see if the cancer is stable or growing. Keep those fingers crossed! 🤞

Onward!

Knowledge is Power 🧐 💪

May 4, 2024

Hello everyone and happy May! I feel like I can’t pass on saying May the Fourth Be with You, even though I’m not big into Star Wars.

I do feel like this is a good news post. I have information from both a PET/CT scan of my entire body and an MRI scan of my lower back.

I have a fracture in my hip that was not caused by a fall or any kind of trauma. It just developed because my bones are weak. The fracture is right in the ball of the hip joint (the acetabulum) where the femur connects. Every time I stand up the femur pushes on the acetabulum where the fracture is, causing pain.

So, my cranky hip is not progression from cancer. Yay!

My tumor marker numbers look good. Last month was 94, last week it was 102. I’ll take it, it’s much lower than the 800 I had in January! 38 and lower means no active cancer. For now, I’d like lower but will be patient!

All smiles because the cancer is under control, for now!

Now the longer version. Stop reading here if you only wanted the basics.

My main oncologist is calling the orthopedic oncologist that did my hip stabilization procedure back in December 2022 to ask if there might be anything he can do. Still waiting on that.

I had my 5th infusion of Enhertu, which is an IV chemo. At this point my side effects are mild and manageable with a combination of my being kind to myself and medication. I don’t have major hair loss, just some shedding. I have some numbness in my fingers now and again (neuropathy). I get the hiccups a lot. Sometimes so loud and violently that they wake me up; sometimes Glen has to go sleep elsewhere because they just don’t stop. The biggest issue has been nausea and vomiting. I think I have that managed by medications, we shall see.

I am feeling very, very grateful as many people do not tolerate these drugs as well as I have.

Back to my hip. I’ll be mainly working with my physical therapist now to get me stronger and get some cardio going. He explained today that unless we can do something with the hip fracture, I probably need to accept that an assistive walking device, like my cane, is a part of my future.

I’ve got a home exercise plan for weight training and other exercises to improve my balance and all that fun stuff. I need to get cardio into the mix so I’ll start with our home treadmill. Ultimately, I’d like to get to the pool to do some walking and other exercises in a non-stress environment.

My goal is to be able to walk outside on the trails by July. I’ll need more strength and stamina and I’m really excited about working to reach this goal. I’ve really missed getting out of the house.

I’m still on a ton of pain medication, including the fentanyl patch. It helps tremendously and I don’t notice any impairment from it, yet I’ve avoided driving as much as possible. That makes life rather difficult but not impossible.

In non-cancer updates – Evelyn is finishing up her semester exams of her sophomore year at CU Boulder. She will live at home this summer because she got an internship (in mechanical engineering) at a company across the street from our neighborhood!

Maddy is wrapping up Junior year and some IB (International Baccalaureate) testing. She just had her last dance competition of this year, now auditions for next year and the spring recital. If you are local and want to join me at any of her recitals let me know.

Glen is busy with work and enjoying the warmer weather. He’s back to running in the foothills, especially on the weekend. He is currently outside working on the gardens. Glen and Maddy did some campus tours in the LA region earlier this spring.

I’m keeping myself busy with work and working on strengthening the local MBC network that I started. Overall I’m feeling better so it’s been a blessing and a curse that I want to do more and need to not overdo it, which I have a tendency to do.

I’m hoping to make a trip to Wisconsin in the early part of summer and of course would love to connect with many of you. I’ll share plans once they are made.

Be well my friends. Get out there and live every day as if it were your last.

Onward!

Toulouse is officially a lap cat as this is a rare sighting with Glen

Four years of MBC

In my head July 19, 2019 was the day I got the stage 4 diagnosis. Turns out it was actually July 18. No matter. The 19th was the first full day living with this reality.

It’s been four years. Probably closer to 5 given misdiagnosis.

I’m on my second line of treatment. For that I’m extremely grateful.

Is my life what I thought it would be at 54 years old? Absolutely not. Is my life good? Absolutely!

I’m a planner and have always had a Plan A, Plan B, and Plan C. Never was stage 4 cancer in the plan, but alas, here it is.

Don’t get me wrong, the whole thing sucks. There is no silver lining. There are no lessons learned. I didn’t get some grand awakening that made me appreciate my life more. Me and my family just had to pivot and find a new path forward.

I’m on my second treatment line of medication. That means that I was taking medication that stopped working and had to switch to new meds. Cancer is crafty and can figure how to outsmart the medication.

Fortunately, science is amazing and research is literally life saving.

If you have the means please consider supporting my fundraising for more research into MBC treatments. Even if I am not able to benefit, those who, unfortunately, come after me will.

https://donate.metavivor.org/fundraiser/4523169