I’m happy to share that my total hip replacement was a success! I had the surgery on Tuesday and was home Wednesday afternoon. My first home physical therapy session was Friday and he cleared me to walk the cul-de-sac. All the pre-habilitation has paid off!
Out walking the cul-de-sac.
Thank you to everyone who has sent well wishes and flowers and text messages. They are very much appreciated and each one brightens my day.
So, it turns out that my right leg was 1.5 centimeters shorter than my left leg. Over time, with the cancer eating away at my hip, the socket flattened out. The top of the femur also flattened out. It was months in the making so I didn’t necessarily notice the leg difference. It feels weird now to have both the same length – the right feels longer than the left.
He put a ceramic socket in and attached it to the cement/hardware that he put in a couple of years ago. My hip is not strong enough to have the socket attached to the hip bone, like in a normal hip replacement.
The top of the femoral head is metal (titanium I think). When he was putting it in my femur cracked (again, weak bones) and so he had to wrap some wire around it, kind of like a wine barrel. Overall he said the procedure was good and doesn’t expect any kind of complications with the healing.
Ann came out and was my caregiver for which I am extremely grateful. Maddy took the day from school to come to Denver and wait with Ann during the surgery.
The weather has been good and so I’m looking forward to walking outside. My PT comes again on Monday and I’ll be looking to walk longer. The cat is happy that I’m spending a lot of time in the recliner! On Monday I’ll get back to working, probably from my recliner!
I’ll have a check up in 2 or 3 weeks. I’m still planning to go to Belgium with Maddy for a breast cancer symposium later in September. The work must go on!
I also have a PET scan mid-September to see if the cancer is stable or growing. Keep those fingers crossed! 🤞
Happy end of summer everyone. It’s been a good one for me all things considered. I had some work travel and also some fun personal travel. I was in Wisconsin with Evelyn and Maddy to visit family and shortly after that we took a family vacation to Kauai, Hawaii.
The Nepali coast. You can only see this area by foot, boat or aircraft
Kauai was beautiful as you might expect, it is called the Garden Island! We had a grand time. I was not able to do all the things they did with hiking and surfing. I did mange to read two books and get through a full season of a Netflix series. Those are things that an are tough to do in daily life.
My cancer is still here of course, just hanging out. I had a PET scan in July and it was a bit “brighter” than the previous scan. What does that mean? Could mean that the bones were healing (growth) or it could mean that the cancer is growing. Confusing? Absolutely!
My tumor marker numbers (taken via blood work) have been pretty reliable. The higher the number the more active the cancer. Over summer, they had been creeping upward a bit. But….the most recent blood work saw them drop back down.
So, my oncologist decided we would repeat the scan in 2 months instead of 3. I am scheduled for a PET scan mid-September. After that we will determine if we should switch medication (progression) or stay the course (stable). We talked about what is next….a different kind of chemo. There is the possibility of getting into a clinical trial which I will try to do. More on that later when we get to that point. It is good to have options. As I’ve mentioned many times before, there are limited lines of treatment. Once I run through them all, then that is it. So, we want as many options as possible. Adding in clinical trials is a way to increase the number of treatment lines AND help advance scientific research.
In the meantime, I have this fracture starting in my acetabulum (extending from the socket of my hip) extending upward into my hip. The femur connects with the fracture when I step, causing a fair amount of pain and discomfort. I continue to walk with a cane to relieve the pressure. I actually wore out my first cane and had to buy another one!
Tuesday, September 3 (the day after Labor Day) I will have a full hip replacement. I’ll stay in the hospital for 2 nights and then recover at home. Glen has some international work travel so Ann has kindly agreed to come out and help me. I’ve been told by numerous people that recovery is not difficult. I’ve been working with my physical therapist on some pre-habilitation to make sure I’m in the best possible place. In addition to the PT exercises I continue to walk daily. I’m up to 8000 steps a day which I think is pretty good.
I did learn what it means to have a full hip replacement. If you are squeamish you might want to stop reading here!
They cut off the top of your femur and replace it with an artificial top. It could be metal or ceramic or plastic. Your bone is hollow and so they basically hammer the artificial femur top into your bone so it stays. They also put something in where the socket is. I’m not positive how that will be attached but likely with special cement. Apparently the material of the femur and the new socket are not the same material, it is rare for a surgeon to use a metal-on-metal replacement.
This image shows the various parts and how they fit together.
This image is pretty self-explanatory. The material for the socket and femur head will be TBD. My surgeon said he will be doing a posterior approach which might take a tad bit longer to recover from.
I am cautiously optimistic that this will go smoothly and I will be up and about in no time. My surgeon has green-lighted me to take an international trip 3 weeks after my surgery so he thinks the same thing apparently!
A few fun photos from summer. Missing here is Maddy’s first day of senior year, visit to Wisconsin, and many walks and lunches with friends.
Onward!
Red Rocks to see Santana. Amazing!We did a private air tour of Kauai which was great except that Maddy got motion sickness. Preseason game of Broncos and Packers. I can always rely on my good friend Amy to get me out and cheering for the Broncos!
Like many things in life, medicine is not black and white. I’m reminded of this every time I have a test or conversation with my medical team.
Earlier in July I had a PET scan. This is one of the primary tools my oncologist uses to determine the status of the cancer. According to the PET, there was increased update / brightness on the image, potentially indicating progression or the cancer being active. However, my blood work (tumor markers) show things as steady, no progression. My tumor markers have been pretty accurate in general.
So, we have conflicting data, which makes decision making challenging.
Given that there are a finite number of treatments, the goal is to stay on each treatment as long as possible. Once you move off a treatment you can’t go back to it. The reason for this is that the cancer has mutated and figured out a way around the treatment so it wouldn’t be effective to go back and take the same medication after you have progression on it.
So, I’m in a situation where one piece of data says potential progression and another piece of data says no progression. What to do?
I will stay on my current treatment (Enhertu) but have another PET scan in 2 months, instead of the typical 3 months. This way we are not waiting too long if there is progression and if there is no progression then we just continue on.
This situation is stressful in spite of my trying not to be too stressed out about things. The uncertainty is hard to deal with.
Working in my favor are 2 upcoming months of lots of exciting things including travel. The best – and only – thing I can do is focus on the here and now and enjoy each day to the fullest. I hope you do the same.
Early morning sun on one of my neighborhood walks.
Hello everyone and happy May! I feel like I can’t pass on saying May the Fourth Be with You, even though I’m not big into Star Wars.
I do feel like this is a good news post. I have information from both a PET/CT scan of my entire body and an MRI scan of my lower back.
I have a fracture in my hip that was not caused by a fall or any kind of trauma. It just developed because my bones are weak. The fracture is right in the ball of the hip joint (the acetabulum) where the femur connects. Every time I stand up the femur pushes on the acetabulum where the fracture is, causing pain.
So, my cranky hip is not progression from cancer. Yay!
My tumor marker numbers look good. Last month was 94, last week it was 102. I’ll take it, it’s much lower than the 800 I had in January! 38 and lower means no active cancer. For now, I’d like lower but will be patient!
All smiles because the cancer is under control, for now!
Now the longer version. Stop reading here if you only wanted the basics.
My main oncologist is calling the orthopedic oncologist that did my hip stabilization procedure back in December 2022 to ask if there might be anything he can do. Still waiting on that.
I had my 5th infusion of Enhertu, which is an IV chemo. At this point my side effects are mild and manageable with a combination of my being kind to myself and medication. I don’t have major hair loss, just some shedding. I have some numbness in my fingers now and again (neuropathy). I get the hiccups a lot. Sometimes so loud and violently that they wake me up; sometimes Glen has to go sleep elsewhere because they just don’t stop. The biggest issue has been nausea and vomiting. I think I have that managed by medications, we shall see.
I am feeling very, very grateful as many people do not tolerate these drugs as well as I have.
Back to my hip. I’ll be mainly working with my physical therapist now to get me stronger and get some cardio going. He explained today that unless we can do something with the hip fracture, I probably need to accept that an assistive walking device, like my cane, is a part of my future.
I’ve got a home exercise plan for weight training and other exercises to improve my balance and all that fun stuff. I need to get cardio into the mix so I’ll start with our home treadmill. Ultimately, I’d like to get to the pool to do some walking and other exercises in a non-stress environment.
My goal is to be able to walk outside on the trails by July. I’ll need more strength and stamina and I’m really excited about working to reach this goal. I’ve really missed getting out of the house.
I’m still on a ton of pain medication, including the fentanyl patch. It helps tremendously and I don’t notice any impairment from it, yet I’ve avoided driving as much as possible. That makes life rather difficult but not impossible.
In non-cancer updates – Evelyn is finishing up her semester exams of her sophomore year at CU Boulder. She will live at home this summer because she got an internship (in mechanical engineering) at a company across the street from our neighborhood!
Maddy is wrapping up Junior year and some IB (International Baccalaureate) testing. She just had her last dance competition of this year, now auditions for next year and the spring recital. If you are local and want to join me at any of her recitals let me know.
Glen is busy with work and enjoying the warmer weather. He’s back to running in the foothills, especially on the weekend. He is currently outside working on the gardens. Glen and Maddy did some campus tours in the LA region earlier this spring.
I’m keeping myself busy with work and working on strengthening the local MBC network that I started. Overall I’m feeling better so it’s been a blessing and a curse that I want to do more and need to not overdo it, which I have a tendency to do.
I’m hoping to make a trip to Wisconsin in the early part of summer and of course would love to connect with many of you. I’ll share plans once they are made.
Be well my friends. Get out there and live every day as if it were your last.
Onward!
Toulouse is officially a lap cat as this is a rare sighting with GlenLast Sunday was hard and Glen grabbed some flowers to life my spiritsMy dearest and longest friend Sara made time to stop on her cross country trip rescuing some pupsInfusion #5 with a great view of the mountainsGlen and Ev at the Engineering Expo Open HouseThe tough look of success at dance comp
April 14, 2024. Hi everyone – just a quick update on things here in cancerland.
This past week I had a PET scan and an infusion of Enhertu (chemotherapy). Both went smoothly, no problems at all. I’ve not seen the PET scan report, but I received a voice mail from my oncologist that things were “stable” meaning the cancer did not look like it was growing. The infusion treatment on Tuesday also went smoothly with no issues. My blood work and tumor marker continues to drop, indicating the medication is doing its job.
I am very grateful for all of this!
I continue to have mobility issues with my right hip. It’s not clear if it is cancer related or not. I’m on a lot of pain medication right now due to my lower back. Next week I’ll reach out to my oncologist and see if we can get an MRI so we have more detailed information.
The impaired mobility is significant. I cannot walk without assistance and my hip flexor is extremely tight. I’m trying to work in some upper body free weights and additional lower body stretching. I’ve not returned to doing outdoor walks, my stability is not great. I may look at longer walks on our home treadmill to get some endurance going.
I hope that signs of spring are apparent where you live. We’ve had some lovely weather here and I hope it continues!
You can follow me on Instagram at @nottodaymbc where I tend to post more daily cancer-related updates. I post to Facebook but not much health-related information. Of course I always welcome a text message or snail mail if you feel like getting in touch.
Enjoy whatever weather Mother Nature throws at you!
Lots going on here so I’ll try to summarize for those trying to keep up.
Surgery. I still have continual pain in my lower back, right hip and leg. It’s debilitating and very frustrating to deal with and try to control. An MRI of my lower back shows that I have tumor pushing on my spinal cord. It’s not clear if this tumor is “new” or “old”.
The surgeon (neuro-oncologist) is recommending a laminectomy and tumor “rescission”. He will go in and remove part of 2 of my vertebrae as well as any cancer tumors he sees there. He is very confident this will eliminate my pain (🤞). Note: I find surgeons to be over confident in general.
Surgery is scheduled for Wednesday October 4. I will stay one night in the hospital. I should be up and walking about the same day.
New Meds. The results of my PET scan show the cancer is still limited to my bones (no visceral organs). This is very good! It also looks as though I have been having very slow progression over the past year.
My oncologist wants to stay ahead of the cancer (me too!) and recommends switching medication. I have already stopped taking Ibrance and in late October I will switch to Xeloda (z-low-da). These oral meds are taken twice a day for two weeks and then a week off.
I had a great run with Ibrance – over 4 years and 50+ medication cycles!
I know several other women on Xeloda so there is a support network to plug in to. I’m hoping my side effects are minimal and that my cancer hates this medication!
I will keep taking Xeloda until it stops working. This is determined by doing scans and comparing them to previous scans.
Today I will see my primary care physician to have him sign off that I’m healthy enough to have surgery. Then I’ll be calling my insurance company to see where approval for the surgery is.
Other than all of this, it’s a typical fall day here in Colorado with leaves starting to turn, lots of sunshine, and a high in the mid-80s. I’m looking forward to getting my back/hip/leg in order so I can go out and walk again. Take a walk for me – short or long – and send me a photo.
Bye bye Ibrance. You served me well, I’m still disappointed that you failed me. Do better, medicine!
I feel like I missed summer so I’m being intentional about eating lunch outside in the sun! I hope you are still getting outside now and again to get some fresh air and vitamin D.
This past week was a busy one medical-wise. I had my regular monthly appointments. Additionally I had an MRI on my lumbar spine region (lower back) and met with a neuro-oncologist.
My medical oncologist is lowering the dose of one of my medications (Ibrance). There are 3 dose levels. I’ve been on this highest dose for 4 years. Apparently after being on it for that long it is common for white blood cells to start to tank (neutrophils specifically). So, I will go to the next lower dosage. It should not affect the efficacy of the treatment.
It’s interesting that the default is to start patients on the highest tolerable dose of a drug and then lower the dosage when there are side effects or complications. There is a group of patient advocates that are trying to change this so doctors don’t default to the highest dose to start.
Anyway, this change should not affect my treatment. The change will happen next month.
The neuro-oncologist believes he has found the source of my nerve pain. It appears that I have tumor on both the L3 and L4 vertebrae. The tumors are on the inside of the vertebrae and pushing on the spinal cord. That is what is generating the nerve pain in my hip and leg.
His recommendation (which I will follow) is that he do surgery to remove the tumor material. It’s not scheduled yet, hopefully will happen within 2-3 weeks.
We don’t know if the tumors are new or if they are “old” and just got pushed/moved around. The first step will be to get me out of constant pain. The second will be for my oncologist to determine if the cancer has awakened or is still sleeping. I won’t have that information until early October.
With Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC) the cancer spreads beyond the breast. I have bone only disease. This is good in that bone only disease does not kill you. However, it can mess you up royally. The cancer in my spine has now made it very difficult to walk. The current nerve pain only allows me to lay and sleep on my left side. It’s possible though that the bone disease can cause incontinence and other very unpleasant things. So, when I say “Things could be worse.” They could, indeed.
Maddy has started her junior year of HS and a new year of dance. Evelyn is moved in to her apartment and in the thick of classes as a sophomore at University of Colorado Boulder. (She is VERY excited for the football game tomorrow! Look for her on tv.) Glen finished his fly fishing trip and will be traveling for work next week.
I have work travel scheduled (which will likely be cancelled). I also am/was planning to go to a breast cancer symposium in Pittsburgh, attending as a patient advocate. We will see how all this travel shakes out with impending surgery. I don’t have a great feeling about this travel happening either.
This back surgery is a bump in the road. One thing at a time. Thanks to everyone for your support and love. Right back at ‘ cha!
We take our spine for granted! Stop doing that!MRI scrubs. It is extremely rare to be given scrubs that fit!My work buddy. I’ve taken over Evelyn’s bedroom as a workspace. Better light!
I’m happy to share that my cancer seems to be quiet and stable. I’ll take this.
I had scans 2 days ago and appointments today with my oncologist and for treatment. The CT scan identified something on my sternum but it can’t distinguish if it is healed bone or new cancer. Imaging is imperfect.
I have been getting CT scans (with contrast) and a bone scan roughly every 3 months since my diagnosis. I have bone-only disease and it’s hard to get good information from these images.
My oncologist wants to switch me over to PET scans, and he wants to do the next scan in October, two months away. I think he is suspicious of the CT results. Insurance companies don’t like to pay for PET scans but the oncologist is pretty confident he can make a good argument. I’ve only had one PET scan and that was how I was diagnosed with bone metastasis.
My immune system is not great right now – my blood work came back with low neutrophils. So, I have to wait a week to restart my Ibrance. I’ll have more lab work next Wednesday and if it looks better I can restart it. If it comes back the same then he will probably lower the dosage of the medication.
I have been having nerve pain all summer. I had a kypoplasty on June 1; the pain largely continued. I had an epidural steroid injection 2 weeks ago; the pain continues. Since nothing showed up on the CT scan, we can assume it’s not new cancer so I’ll head back to the other doctor to see what we can do.
The nerve pain is from the L4/L5 and extends all the way down my leg which makes walking difficult. I’m trying to get exercise in the warm water pool of the YMCA. It’s been a frustrating summer from a physical standpoint.
In other news, Evelyn is home from Europe and Maddy finished a 2 week, 12-hour per day dance workshop at the University of Colorado. It’s nice to have them both home. Ev will move into her apartment in ~1.5 weeks. Maddy starts her junior year next week. Glen is working a lot and will take time off later this month for an annual fly fishing trip.
However you choose to finish out the summer, I hope it is exactly what you need it to be.
Rockies gameInfusion to strengthen bonesView during treatment
Hello friends and family. Checking in with you all to share I have no big news. That is good!
I had my monthly oncology appointment and things are “fine”. I’m taking my Ibrance (CKD 4/6 inhibitor), I got my shots today (Lupron & Fulvestrant) and I’ll go back in 4 weeks. Such is the life of an MBC patient .
I’m grateful for this. So many friends and acquaintances with MBC are not in a relatively easy place. I acknowledge that life is good right now.
Life is good but not pain free. I had my back procedure on June 1 and I am still having hip and leg pain from the nerve compression by my spine. My physical therapist and acupuncturist pointed out that it will take 4-6 weeks after surgery to feel normal. So, I wait and hope that it all resolves.
My blood work – specifically tumor markers – have been rather erratic, bouncing high and low. Because of this my oncologist said he is going to focus on results from scans and take any blood work information “with a large grain of salt”. I will have scans again in August.
Scan, assess, repeat.
Late last month we were in Galveston, TX for Maddy’s national dance competition. She did amazing and we are super proud. We spent a few days in Steamboat Springs after the Fourth of July and it was very relaxing. I’m grateful for both opportunities.
I hope your summer is shaping up exactly how you’d like it to be. If you get some wanderlust, come on out to Colorado. We have space for you and lots of fun things to do in summer.
National Dance Competition, TexasMaddy placed first for her solo against 40 other dancersFun in Steamboat SpringsWildfilowers near Steamboat Lake, on Ernie’s property
“We do not need to change treatment plans at this time.” Music from oncologist Dr. Andorsky’s mouth to my ears this morning! What does this mean? My CT scan showed no progression of cancer, things are stable.
So, we carry on!
The one thing that did show up on my CT scan was the hot mess that my L4 vertebrae is, including a new compression fracture. I’ve not been feeling well since my fall in April and my oncologist was a bit worried this might have been due to progression. It appears that the pain is all related to my fall.
This of course is fantastic news and quite a relief. Is a CT scan absolutely definitive? No, it is not. It is a bit of an art to monitor terminal cancer. This being said, we have as much data as possible and so I’m confident we are on the right path.
My oncologist was very happy with how things are going and I think he was a bit relieved to see me in better spirits.
The reason for my better spirits – besides a stable scan – is that I’ve been able to keep my pain under control and I feel like I’m getting stronger. I can walk unassisted (no cane). I can walk more confidently both up and down stairs. I have not resumed longer walks or walks outside. I’m staying on the treadmill and trying to increase my length and endurance.
We have a plan to hopefully eliminate the pain!
On Thursday, June 1, I am scheduled to undergo an outpatient procedure to fix the compression fracture on my L4 (a kyphoplasty). Basically, they will go in, guided by imaging, and place a little balloon where the fracture is, lift up the vertebrae and inject some cement so that the vertebrae is not compressed.
The pain I currently have is mostly nerve-related pain in my leg. It’s decreased with my medication, but is definitely still there. I am very optimistic that this procedure will help and I’ll be back walking on the trails by mid-June! Cross your fingers with me!
And also please celebrate with me. Living with Metastatic Breast Cancer is stressful and my family and I live in 3 month increments. This provides just a tiny bit of breathing room and will make for a fantastic summer.
I always have a plan for when I get my CT scan results. Today’s treat was a fancy iced coffee.
Life As I Know It 